Man on breakups

This post is a dedication to Agam Kumar Nigam whose songs of lamentation along with the respective music videos protraying man's dependency on his senses and his innate ability to be boorish. The songs of Agam Kumar Nigam along with the music videos has always been a source of inspiration,appreciation, instigation, introspection, interrogation , adulteration and constipation. And Mr Agam, after the world wild hit of Bewafaai (Means Infidelity), has come up with a sequel Phir Bewafaai (Means Again Infidelity). Songs of Mr Agam reminds me of a few Altaf Raja songs.

You remember Altaf Raja, dont you ? Oh my God , you do remember him !!!

Sadly, This post is not about those two talented singers and what they would have had for dinner which made them sing such songs, or rather sing songs at all as you may wonder. This post is about those who are suffering from breakups.

I had observed, or i was told by a good friend for he happen to observe it as well or he was just assuming the same , that almost of breakups happen in and out of these coffee places.It was also observed that english was a funny language as it appears to be. For instance when "I am done" means i have finished eating the french apple pie, "We are done" would stand for a breakup phrase. Good old D.P.(Divyanandan Pavanasam) had trouble deciphering the problem but he did research and find the roots of such ambiguity during the times of renaissance. D.P., as resourceful as one could ever be.

A breakup is a mutual agreement mostly proposed by one of the parties involved in it and duly opposed by the other party involved in it. One can see a breakup coming. When all that your hear sounds more like an documentary in some weird language, when you hate waiting at a place for even a second and end up going to there half an hour late, when you get more affected by Tommy's health. (Tommy would be your dog or your cat or your snake or a scorpion depending on the your choice of pets.) When a sneeze of yours doesnt get the same concern and affection and bless you as u once got or as you expect to get. Thats my friend the start of the culmination of a relation which might lead to a breakup.

Breakups could at times change your luck. One of my friends acquaintance got so dejected after being dumped on an issue as trivial as his likeness for garlic stuffed sandwich was desperate to commit suicide and he did try jumping in front of a SUV. His braveness did end up getting into the strecher right to the hospital where he stayed for a good 6 months. He did get a few visitors and all of them gifted him books of great taste to the extend of one of his friends gifting him an Oxford learners dictionary. He read all of them and is now writing a book by himself. Some of the books were a bit romantic and he ended up dating an awesome looking nurse by the time he was getting discharged.

But a few wont take a breakup as it should be taken. I had this friend of mine who at the instance of being told the news got so upset and went into spasms of laughter. It was later found out that my frined was purposefully made high so that the news could sink in well.

How one deals with a breakup is highly personal, I say. There is no gender bias here. There is no racial bigotry here. Everyone is unequal. You may try to get over the past relationship by doing a lot of things. Some my go and cut their hair. Some may grow beard. Some will indulge in a strict diet and health regime. Some will keep crying over the dead cat. You will hang around with friends. You might go on a "I will eat anything that captures my vision" mission. You might get a liking for poetry and philosophy. You might indulge in arts. You might sigh at a modern art which to a mathematician's eye look like an pictorial representation of Pythagorean triplets. Some might even resort to a shopping spree where you end up buying all the things u never had. A friend of mine suffered heavily due to the latter. Even though he broke off with his girlfriend but was a bit late in getting his credit card back.

IF you are still dejected because of the breakup please get a cd or two of the above mentioned artist and listen. You might feel elevated. And those songs are of better use than laughed upon by a madman in his scribbling.